The Hidden Money Block No One Talks About: “I Spend Because I Might Not Get Another Chance”

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Let’s be real—if you’re a creative or a mom (or both), you’ve probably had seasons.

Seasons where the money flows like magic… and seasons where you’re scraping together gas money and grocery lists on sticky notes and prayers.

If you’ve ever caught yourself saying…

“Let me just buy it now, because I don’t know when I’ll get the chance again.”

You’re not alone.
You’re not “bad with money.”
You’re not undisciplined.

You’re protecting yourself in the only way your nervous system knows how.


Let’s Name It: Inconsistent Opportunity Mindset

This sneaky money block doesn’t always look like lack. Sometimes it looks like:

  • Impulse buying after a big payment hits

  • Overinvesting in tools or courses “just in case”

  • Treating yourself constantly because you deserve it—even if the budget says otherwise

And honestly? You do deserve it. But if the high is followed by guilt, shame, or scrambling later on… it’s time to pause and get curious.


Where It Comes From

Most of us were never taught to trust money.

Especially if:

  • You grew up watching your caregivers juggle bills with anxiety

  • You had to be self-reliant at a young age

  • You’ve experienced financial trauma (job loss, divorce, single motherhood, inconsistent freelance income)

You may have internalized this:

“Money comes and goes. So I better enjoy it while it’s here.”

That belief makes total sense when your past has proven it true.

But here’s the truth I want you to hear:

🌿 Money isn’t your enemy. It’s just energy. And you get to change the way it shows up for you.


How to Start Releasing This Block

We’re not about shame here—we’re about healing.

Here are practical steps to start shifting your money story:


✨ 1. Name the Fear

Next time you feel the urge to spend, pause and ask:

“Am I buying this from peace… or panic?”

Write it out. Let yourself get honest.


✨ 2. Start a “Stability Fund”

Not a savings account that feels like punishment. A support fund.

Label it something like:

  • “I Am Supported”

  • “Future Me Is Safe”

  • “More Always Comes”

Put even $5 aside consistently. This isn’t about the amount—it’s about building trust.


✨ 3. Rewire with Affirmations

Words matter. Speak these out loud or journal them daily:

💬 “I trust that opportunities will always return. I don’t have to rush or grasp.”

💬 “Money stays. Money flows. I am safe in the pause.”


✨ 4. Regulate Your Nervous System

When you’ve lived in survival mode, your body needs to learn that calm ≠ danger.

Try:

  • Tapping (EFT)

  • Deep belly breathing before financial decisions

  • Mirror work: look yourself in the eye and say, “I am safe. I am supported.”


Journal Prompts to Dive Deeper

📝 What do I believe will happen if I don’t buy this now?
📝 What would it feel like to trust that money and opportunities are consistent and always available to me?


You’re Not Alone in This

As moms, as creatives, as soul-led women—we carry a lot. And sometimes money becomes the outlet for joy, rebellion, or control when life feels chaotic.

But you deserve peace with money. Not just more of it—better energy with it.

And guess what?


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You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re just awakening to a better way. And I’m so proud of you for being here.

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